Nanette Geiger, Relationship Best Selling Author , writes… …

Valentine’s Day brings out the romantic in most of us. At the very least, it’s a day that we would LIKE to have the romantic drawn out in us. Whether you are in a relationship or spending this Valentine’s Day alone, when you think about Valentine’s Day do you not recall the absurd little cupid cards we would send around to our classmates in grade school or the cards we created in class for our parents?

Other references and reminders we have concerning Valentine’s Day and what it actually means to be in a relationship or not can make us feel good or bad, depending on past relationships. Unfortunately, most of what feelings we experience, no matter what the status of our relationship is is brought to bear in our minds by the conditioned thinking that has been ‘out there’ in the collective consciousness.

Do not pay attention to what they’re saying. Don’t pay attention if it does not lift your spirits and make you feel better about yourself. You are excellent just the way you are.

If you desire a relationship and don’t have one, wonderful! You have the opportunity to clarify what you want. Now you’re in a great area to begin to manifest a relationship from a new starting point.

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Valentine’s Day, whether you are coupled or not, can be a day where you experience the love that’s going to arrive! However, you have to be proactive about this. You’re the one who gets to say and has the creative control of what you want in your relationship. A Relationship Coach can help you get clear on what you want and help you achieve the relationship of a lifetime!

This is where many of us fall down on the job. We are waiting for the circumstances to change out there. We’re waiting for him to take charge. We’re hoping that if we give him enough hints, he’ll step up and finally get into gear. WRONG. Don’t do that. That’s letting yourself be at the effect, instead of the cause of your life. You get say. All you have to do is make a gentle request, to your existing spouse or lover or to the Universe. Then, you’ll need to get out of the way. You need to forget the how, the what, and the when of what you want. Attaching yourself to the outcome is basically resisting what you desire. You can’t say “Come in” with your hand pushing the door shut and expect it to enter. Perhaps that is easier said than done. But that is why life coaching exists for those of us who need to get clear on why we are failing to get what we want and then help us to align with what we do so it can manifest. If you want to get a head-start on attracting the love of your dreams, you can get great coaching from a Law of Attraction Coach. Get your free consultation today!

It comes down to three steps. Ask, Align, and Allow. Simple, right? Not always easy. Ask yourself “What could be available to me in a loving, aligned, co-creative partnership?” “What would I be capable of in my life if I had a mutual, loving relationship”? Think Big! Now start to play in the vibration of how your life would appear and feel like if you were experiencing that currently. Use your creativity – remember what you did so effortlessly as a child?

I am always truly moved when I remind myself of all of the amazing miracles I’ve attracted by way of creating my beloved husband. A little over four years ago, I was one of the people who had more unsettling closings to relationships than I would want to admit. Then, I really buckled down with Law of Attraction. I did the play/work. I dropped my barriers to love, got aligned and rapidly attracted the love of my life.

This Valentine’s Day, this year, I hope you are as blessed as I am in your relationship. I know you deserved it. By the way, a relationship is an ongoing mutual effort, as is life. I wish you a happy life, true love and perfect creation.

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